Many people think that to start a new relationship, they must work on self-improvement first. Unfortunately, doing this can mean being in arbitrary exile. That’s where your feel out of touch and sad. When you embrace the ‘working on self’ notion, enlightenment will elude you while isolation will compound your misery. Therefore, focus on working on self-improvement through development of greater sexual and emotional self-awareness. Remember that entering a new relationship will enable you to know yourself better.
Generally, every relationship has a unique dating experience. It provides in-the-moment information regarding your weaknesses, strengths and preferences. If you don’t start a new relationship with a new perspective, you will be stuck. So, allow your brain to exercise its ability to grow and adapt when getting into a new relationship.